Today my little brother is turning 26. I can still look at him and see that cute chubby little boy that he once was instead of the nice looking man he has now become. I only wish that I could spend his birthday with him but since that is not an option I sang instead on your phone to show some love. I hope you birthday is wonderful just remember to take two tylenol before you go to bed.

GO TO HELL that is so what I would love to yell in the phone if I could get the right person on the receiving end of my tirade. I am so pissed right now because I believed in a person only to find out how truly selfish and unkind they are. I am highly disappointed but at the same time I am really not surprised. I know that there are so many people out there in committed relationships that keep secrets from their partners but in my marriage that is not the case. How dare you ask for him to keep a secret? How dare you think that you out rank me in my family situation because I have news for you hunny you don’t. I am not going to be a jerk and make a list of all the times that you have been there for me vs. the times that I have been there for you because we both know that the list would be far from even. I am going to continue to be nice to you because I want to keep the family peace but as far as I am concerned you and your busy body friend can GO TO HELL you are not worth my time or my tears. And thanks for showing your true colors.